do you ever watch that show, intervention? i do, i think is great..i mean sometimes people need help realizing that they need help..its really easy to keep doin the wrong thing or goin in the wrong direction because you are already there and its familiar, even if its wrong for you, just because you know the variables, you know the circumstances, you know the results..its comfortable, so its easy. but making a commitment, changing, and taking the time to do what you need to do to get the results is worth it...i think God's doin an intervention on me...